There is a lot of health and medical information available about continuing a pregnancy and having a baby. A lot of this information is directed to women who have already decided to have a baby. However, some women may not be so certain about keeping a baby. They may need answers to issues that will affect their decision:
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- ‘I’ll be a single parent. How much money will I get from Centrelink?’
- ‘I want to have the baby, but I need to know if I can stay on methadone.’
- ‘He’s threatening me if I continue the pregnancy. Can he get custody of the baby?’
- ‘I’m scared of hospitals. Are there any Aboriginal midwives available?’
- ‘The relationship has been a bit rocky. I think I need to talk to someone about it first.’
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Issues influencing the decision to continue a pregnancy are often things like finances, housing, legal rights, relationships, emotional wellbeing and what support is available to help with a baby. It can be hard to know where to look for information about these issues. That’s why we’ve included a list of community services to help you decide whether to parent.
Remember: whatever you decide, it has to be the right decision for you.
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Royal Women’s Hospital (the Women’s) resources
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Below is a list of issues women have told us are important in making their decision. In the list, we’ve indicated resources you can get from your counsellor, social worker at the Women’s or from the Women’s Health Information Centre (WHIC) on the ground floor of the hospital (03 8345 3045). For resources that aren’t available at the Women’s, we’ve included contact details for organisations that specialise in the area.
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Where to find up-to-date and accurate information
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Health
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How should I be taking care of my health in pregnancy?
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- The Women's booklet - Preparing for Pregnancy (copies also available from the WHIC)
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Work
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Am I entitled to maternity leave and/or paid maternity leave?
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- The Women's booklet - Preparing for Pregnancy (copies also available from the WHIC)
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- JobWatch - (03) 9662 1933
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Money
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What am I entitled to from Centrelink? How will I manage my finances?
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- Consumer Affairs (to find a financial counsellor) - 1300 558 181
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Child support
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Am I entitled to any financial assistance?
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- Child Support & Parentage Testing - (03) 9269 0120 or 1800 677 402 (country callers)
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Legal rights
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I am unsure about my rights – regarding the father or something else
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- Women’s Legal Service (family law and violence) - (03) 9642 0877 or 1800 133 302 (toll free)
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- Victoria Legal Aid - (03) 9269 0120 or 1800 677 402 (country callers)
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Housing
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Where am I going to live if I decide to have a child?
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- Ask your counsellor or social worker for the number of your local housing agency
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- Victorian government’s list of Local Housing offices
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- Melbourne City Mission search for Young and Pregnant Parenting Program
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Being a young parent
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Who can help me out?
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- ‘Starting Out’ program at Connections Croydon (for women in the Eastern suburbs of Melbourne) -
(03) 9724 2222
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- Frontyard Youth Services (up to age 25) - (03) 9611 2411 or 1800 800 531
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- Council of Single Mothers and their Children - (03) 9654 0622 or 1800 077 374 (country callers)
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Drugs & alcohol issues
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Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander women
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Culturally specific services
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Refugee & migrant women
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DNA/Paternity testing
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Can I find out who the father of this pregnancy is?
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Single parenting, parenting support & childcare
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Do I have enough supports to parent?
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- The Women's booklet - Preparing for Pregnancy (copies also available from the WHIC)
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- Council of Single Mothers and their Children - (03) 9654 0622 or 1800 077 374 (country callers)
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Relationship
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Should I have a baby now in the relationship I’m in?
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- The Women's booklet - Preparing for Pregnancy (copies also available from the WHIC)
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- Domestic Violence Resource Centre - Are you being abused? online quiz
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- Men’s Referral Service - 1800 065 973 or (03) 9428 2899
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Violence and/or sexual assault
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How are they making me feel about this decision?
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- CASA House & the Women’s jointly produced booklet 'Pregnancy to Parenting: A guide to support victim/survivors of child sexual assault through the journey of pregnancy, birth and parenting' - Call (03) 8345 3045 for a copy
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- Women's Domestic Violence Crisis Service - 1800 015 188 (toll free) or (03) 9322 3555
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- Love: the good, the bad and the ugly (Domestic Violence Resource Centre) - (03) 9486 9866
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- Men’s Referral Service - 1800 065 973 or (03) 9428 2899
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