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Early stage - 0-4cm dilation
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To start with you may have:
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- contractions which feel like period cramps (they may be irregular and more than five minutes apart)
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- ruptured membranes- there may be a gush of amniotic fluid or you may lose a little fluid every now and then
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- a show (mucous discharge, which may be bloodstained)
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Things you can do:
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- if its night time try to rest or sleep
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- during the day go for a walk or carry on with gentle activities
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- talk to a supportive friend or family member
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- check arrangements for childcare.
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Things for you to remember:
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- it's important to save your energy for the more active stages of labour
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- it may be comforting to have some company
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- discuss your wishes regarding such things as pain relief with your support people
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- you can ring the hospital at any hour if you are uncertain of what to do or if you feel anxious
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- try to stay calm- this is just the beginning.
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What a support person can do:
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- be available to give support by phone or in person
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- help with the last minute arrangements
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- understand and accept the wishes of the woman you're supporting
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First stage Middle phase - 4- 8cm dilation
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- contractions are more regular (3-5 minutes apart) and last longer
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- contractions become more painful
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- it may become increasingly difficult to keep comfortable
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- you may need to concentrate during contractions
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- back pain may continue to be a problem
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- you may want to discuss having some pain relief
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- you may have a show of blood and mucus or the membranes may rupture now or later in the first stage, if they haven't done so already.
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Things you can do:
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- continue to drink plenty of fluid (water or juice)
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- suck on sweets to keep up your energy
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- vary your position to keep as comfortable as possible (standing, kneeling, lying, down, straddling a chair, all fours)
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- have a bath or hot shower
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- ask for a back rub or massage
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- do whatever feels right- rock, sing, meditate, groan, swear.
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Things to remember:
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- take one contraction at a time. Rest between contractions
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- if you don't want to be touched, say so
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- express your feelings as you wish. There's no right way to do this
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- your needs may change as labour progresses
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- try out all your relaxation techniques.
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What a support person can do:
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- help settle in to the labour room
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- take your cues from the woman in labour. Her needs will changes as time goes by
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- go with the flow. A woman in labour is in a different space
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- remember you may need to eat and have a break occasionally.
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Written by Southern Health. Printed with permission from Southern Health.
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